When we love someone, we idealize them in literal terms.
Each and every move, sign, indicator and signal of our look, personality, pet-word, input (perception, way of looking at / taking things, people, situations and events), thought, action, dress, output (reaction, response towards people, situations and events) “speaks” of it. The “Body Language” speaks it, literally.
Be it the style of our spectacles or the tone of our voice, be it the manner of salutation or the way of taking food, our lifestyle speaks of our ideals and hence their personality type.
The more we love them, the more likelihood is our being like them.
The more we talk of something, the more it is in our heart and mind, thoughts and finally actions.
Hence basically, the “Zikr” of a personality, thing, place, etc (in any form) will determine the amount of attachment, the extent of relation, the intensity of affection, the level of connection and the degree of love we hold for them.
Of all the things created, love is unique in so many forms. It is so peculiar that someone may tolerate however badly he is treated or whatever adverse he is put into, but he will feel bad and resist if even a smaller proportion of such adverse treatment is imparted to the one he loves. If someone slaps you, he might get away with it due to one or the other reason, but if he even gestures a punch towards your son or daughter or other loved ones, you will not sit back until you feel that the person has received his due.
It is the love in the form of attachment, adoration, fondness, affection, devotion, attraction and passion that bonds us with people, places, things, concepts and even memories.
Of all the words in vocabulary, those related to love are so sweet, dear and near to our heart, that we start to enjoy the feeling even when someone else uses those words, knowing that it is not us into this situation, but the effects are so rich that an abundance is created, and it spreads around like wildfire. That is exactly the case when we see that all the issues when resolved with poise, consideration, concern and love are more enduring, lasting and effective than those resolved through force.
Mehboob wo hai jiska bura bhi acha lagay….. That’s all about beloved….
Love is about respect, trust, affection and every beautiful thing that has been created…
Appearances and vibes lead to infatuation, attachment, connection, longing, chemistry (and physics + biology too)… Love inn se kaafi ooper hai.