Dialogue – 100 (“Ji..”)

This dialogue is a dedication….

I never knew I would ever write a dialogue. It was an inspiration, an idea, a concept and an understanding. Later, it became an “addiction”.. 

I got the nods, likes, comments and applause of my followers and my friends; but most of all, I got their encouragement, trust and own-ness.

When someone believes in us, that’s a special moment in our life. Somewhere during my journey at my blog, I have learnt and understood that the prayers, sincere concerns and time are the best gifts that we receive and give away.

I thank all of you, for the unending love, support and prayers. It matters in ways more than what can be described.

 


“Meri memory bohat strong hai…. Feelings, sensitivity aur yaadein uss se bhi ziaada….”

“Perfect filmi recipe…”

“Yaar mazaq na karen……. Yaadein nikalti hi nahin…… Am stuck at some past events, people, bad memories….”

“Means, you still give importance to those people…..”

“Sir Ji, khud par parrti hai to pata chalta hai….”

“Siyaanay kehtay hein, ‘you never change things by fighting the existing reality…to change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete…’….”

“So where’s my new model…?.”

“Build it….”

“How…?”

“Align yourself….”

“With what..?”

“With the purpose of life….. Life aasaan ho jaayegi….aur accomplished bhi…..”

“Pur kiththon…!”

“Jo-hai-jahaan-hai-jaisa-hai-acha-hai ki bunyaad per life guzaaro… Shukr, Sabr aur good acts…..bus…! Soorah Al Mulk Aayat No 2 ke mafhoom hai, life aur death sirf isi iye banaayi gayein, keh pata chalay, hum mein se achay acts kon karta hai…”

“Ji….”

“Ye cheez… Isi ‘Ji’ ko life ka pattern banaana hai…. wo kiya kehtay hein diabetics ko: meetha nahin chhorra jaata, to tension lena chhorr dein….lol……aik cheez to choorni parray gi dear…. Rabb ko maanein bhi, aur shikway bhi karein…… Shukr ka kalma bhi parrhein, aur yaadon se bhi na niklein….. Achay acts ki positive side ko bhi follow karein, aur ‘feelings / sensitivity’ ki negative sides pe bhi rahein…. Aik dafa maazi ko peechay chhorr kar to dekho, Allah ki panaah mein aa kar dekho….. Sub theek ho jaaye ga….”..

“Ji…”

“Hamein 2 bohat barri blessings di gayi hein… Aik toubah, doosri umeed… Donon ko nahin chhorrna… Jo Allah itni barri kainaat ka maalik hai, Uss kay liye konsa kaam mumkin nahin….”

“Ji…”

Dialogue – 99 (“No”…..)

“What is the biggest cause of depression – in problematic interpersonal relations, broken hearts and shattered expectations…?”

“When we don’t say ‘No’……when it was required to be said.”

Dialogue – 98 (“Active ingredient”…)

“Yaar, sakoon nahin milta…. Ab tau barra time ho giya, pur ghaao jaata hi nahin…. Yaadein dil o dimaagh pe saanp ban kay baithee hein…”

“Tau kahaa thaa na, ziaada over smart na bano… Pur tum kahaan suntay ho…”

“Ghalti ho gaee yaar… Baskhsh do ab…”

“Ab bhugato…. Pehlay mana kiya thaa na hum ne…..”

“Tum jaisay dost aik nahoosat hein…..!”

“Hahahaha….. Alhamdolillah… Hum jaisay dost hi dost hotay hein… Museebat mein kaam aatay hein…. Acha aik kaam karo…”

“Farmaayiye….”

“Allah se connection strong kar…. Sakoon aa jaaye ga…”

“Kiya hai bohat…. Pur sub kuch ulat, ghalat ho jaata hai….”

“Yaar, tum ne to Pharm-D kiyya hua hai na…!”

“Tau….?… ab B-Tech karloon kiya….!”

“Pehlay sunn to lo…. Barra Bhai kuch keh raha hai…”

“Ji…”

“Wo kiya kehtay hein….Jub medicine banaatay hein, to aik cheez hoti hai ‘potency’……….”

“Haan… Wo hoti hai: strength of active ingredient…..jiskay baghair medicine nahin ban sakti…”

“Agar ye kam ho, to kiya ho ga…”

“Ye sub proportion bilkul recipe ki tarah hoti hai…… Medicine mein aik active ingredient hota hai, baaqi excipients…… Ye kam hogi tau dawai nahin banay gi….”

“Tau, agar recipe kay saaray ingredients pooray na houn, ya apni required concentrations mein na houn, to kiya wo asar karay gi…?”

“Sawaal hi paida nahin hota…..”

“Tau dear! 😀 … Active ingredient ki strength barrhaao…. Sakoon ki recipe mein Allah kay connection se barra material koi nahin……”

“Aapkay liye aasaan hai ye baatein karna…… Itna aasaan hai Allah se connection strong karna…. Main bohat gunaah-gaar hoon… Ye barray aur naik logon ki baatein hein…”

“Yeh mein nahin kehta…. Allah Quraan mein farmaatay hein….. Soorah Al Baqarah – Aayat 156…”

Dialogue – 97 (Pakistan ❤️️❤️️ )

“Pakistan ka kiya banay ga….?”

“Kyoun, kiyua hua..?..”

“Har taraf loot khasoott ka bazaar garm hai…. Koi aik institution bhi poori tarah theek nahin… Awam alag roti peet’ti rehti hai… Ye mulk kaisay chalay ga…!”

“Hmmmmm… Aap sunaaein, kiya haal hein… Ghar baar… Karobaar…. Bachay?”

“Alhamdolillah… Allah ka karam hai… Ghar pe sub theek… Mein ne haal hi mein aik niya project shuru kiyya hai…. Jo last year plant lagaya thaa, wo barray betay ko diya hai, independently chalanay kay liye…… Chottay betay ne FSc kar li hai; usay CSS ka shouq hai…. Sub se chotta Matric mein hai; kehta hai Army mein jaoun ga….. Beti mashaAllah medical college kay last year mein hai……… Business aur life mein chottay barray issues to aatay rehtay hein, pur Allah kay karam se, overall life theek chal rahi hai….. Hum aagay barrh rahay hein….. Allah aagay bhi acha karein gey…..”

“Good… Bus youn samajh lein, Pakistan bhi aisay hi chal raha hai……”

“Ahan…. ”

“Pakistan hum se hai… Ye mulk Allah ki inaayat, rehmat, barkat aur skhur hai…. Ye waisay hi chalay ga, jaisay hum chalein gey….”

Dialogue – 96 (Relations)

“What to do with the relatives who do not call / connect / meet back, as we do to them…?”

“Does it happen often?..”

“Yes…. Quite so…”

“If it happens so often, try to look inward….. Probably in such a case, the locus of control is NOT external…”

“Well, I have a number of cousins, uncles, aunts, who do not connect back to us… They are judgmental, suspicious and infact wary of our visits and calls to them…. They think we expect something, or are gonna demand something…. This thing stops me to connect to them any further…… Our silah-e-rehmi is thus not welcomed…”

“Do you know what does ‘silah-e-rehmi’ mean..?”

“Yes… It means, to connect with relatives, near and dears ones, to do good with them, to make family connections, to take care of relatives, to help them in time of need, to make their lives easy…..”

“”You are right…”

“So…?..”

“Well, does meanings of ‘silah-e-rehmi’, at any point say that you have to expect the same things back…?… Or, does it assure you that you will get the same treatment back…?”

“No…”

“You are right again…”

Dialogue – 95 (Parent….)

“My home was so gloomy yesterday….. No one ate food… Since my son got third position in class…… He missed the first position by 4 marks…”

“That’s cruel….!… or must I say insane…!”

“That’s the same thing his class-teacher said… She and her family had come to visit us last evening, with gifts for him…… And there we were all sitting, sad…”

“Hmmm…. You know….. The teacher acted like parent…… And you acted like teacher….”

Dialogue – 94 (Yaadein…..)

“Yaadein jaghoun se hoti hein, ya logoun se…?”

“Ajeeb baat hai… Achee yaadein jaghoun se yaad aati hein…. Buri yaadein logoun se…”

“Common to loag hi huay..!”

”  😊 … Youn samajh lo, jub hum khush hotay hein tau music sunaai deta hai… Jub udaas hotay hein, tau lyrics…”

“Pur, yaadein tau wohi hoti hain na, jo hum yaad rakhna chahein…”

“Sahee samjhay… Isi liye aksar buri yaadein kisi aisay shakhs say hi milti hain, jis say expectation, umeedein, dosti ya mohabbat ka rishta ho…. Warna jo eham nahin hotay, woh na sirf yeh kay dil mein kisi kaantay ki tarah bhi nahin khatak-tay, balkay dimaagh kay kisi konay mein bhi jagah nahin paatay….”

“Khubay huay kaantay to nikaalay bhi jaa saktay hein…”

“Hey automobile engineer! ye baat tau tum mujh se behtar jaantay ho, kay dent par after-repair kiya giya paint pehlay jaisa kabhi bhi nahin hota…. 😁….”