Dialogue – 99 (“No”…..)

“What is the biggest cause of depression – in problematic interpersonal relations, broken hearts and shattered expectations…?”

“When we don’t say ‘No’……when it was required to be said.”

Dialogue – 98 (“Active ingredient”…)

“Yaar, sakoon nahin milta…. Ab tau barra time ho giya, pur ghaao jaata hi nahin…. Yaadein dil o dimaagh pe saanp ban kay baithee hein…”

“Tau kahaa thaa na, ziaada over smart na bano… Pur tum kahaan suntay ho…”

“Ghalti ho gaee yaar… Baskhsh do ab…”

“Ab bhugato…. Pehlay mana kiya thaa na hum ne…..”

“Tum jaisay dost aik nahoosat hein…..!”

“Hahahaha….. Alhamdolillah… Hum jaisay dost hi dost hotay hein… Museebat mein kaam aatay hein…. Acha aik kaam karo…”

“Farmaayiye….”

“Allah se connection strong kar…. Sakoon aa jaaye ga…”

“Kiya hai bohat…. Pur sub kuch ulat, ghalat ho jaata hai….”

“Yaar, tum ne to Pharm-D kiyya hua hai na…!”

“Tau….?… ab B-Tech karloon kiya….!”

“Pehlay sunn to lo…. Barra Bhai kuch keh raha hai…”

“Ji…”

“Wo kiya kehtay hein….Jub medicine banaatay hein, to aik cheez hoti hai ‘potency’……….”

“Haan… Wo hoti hai: strength of active ingredient…..jiskay baghair medicine nahin ban sakti…”

“Agar ye kam ho, to kiya ho ga…”

“Ye sub proportion bilkul recipe ki tarah hoti hai…… Medicine mein aik active ingredient hota hai, baaqi excipients…… Ye kam hogi tau dawai nahin banay gi….”

“Tau, agar recipe kay saaray ingredients pooray na houn, ya apni required concentrations mein na houn, to kiya wo asar karay gi…?”

“Sawaal hi paida nahin hota…..”

“Tau dear! 😀 … Active ingredient ki strength barrhaao…. Sakoon ki recipe mein Allah kay connection se barra material koi nahin……”

“Aapkay liye aasaan hai ye baatein karna…… Itna aasaan hai Allah se connection strong karna…. Main bohat gunaah-gaar hoon… Ye barray aur naik logon ki baatein hein…”

“Yeh mein nahin kehta…. Allah Quraan mein farmaatay hein….. Soorah Al Baqarah – Aayat 156…”

Dialogue – 97 (Pakistan ❤️️❤️️ )

“Pakistan ka kiya banay ga….?”

“Kyoun, kiyua hua..?..”

“Har taraf loot khasoott ka bazaar garm hai…. Koi aik institution bhi poori tarah theek nahin… Awam alag roti peet’ti rehti hai… Ye mulk kaisay chalay ga…!”

“Hmmmmm… Aap sunaaein, kiya haal hein… Ghar baar… Karobaar…. Bachay?”

“Alhamdolillah… Allah ka karam hai… Ghar pe sub theek… Mein ne haal hi mein aik niya project shuru kiyya hai…. Jo last year plant lagaya thaa, wo barray betay ko diya hai, independently chalanay kay liye…… Chottay betay ne FSc kar li hai; usay CSS ka shouq hai…. Sub se chotta Matric mein hai; kehta hai Army mein jaoun ga….. Beti mashaAllah medical college kay last year mein hai……… Business aur life mein chottay barray issues to aatay rehtay hein, pur Allah kay karam se, overall life theek chal rahi hai….. Hum aagay barrh rahay hein….. Allah aagay bhi acha karein gey…..”

“Good… Bus youn samajh lein, Pakistan bhi aisay hi chal raha hai……”

“Ahan…. ”

“Pakistan hum se hai… Ye mulk Allah ki inaayat, rehmat, barkat aur skhur hai…. Ye waisay hi chalay ga, jaisay hum chalein gey….”

An open letter to my one-year-old brother [Re-blogged]

World Through my Eyes

Dear Zaroon,

Today you have turned one. I remember last year, I thought I would not be able to see you come into this world but somehow it was destined and I made it. Then there begins the hardest part, leaving you after ten days of your birth. Back then we had not spent much time, I was not attached to you, also it was new for me having a brother who is 21 years younger than me but then again as the days passed I started missing you. I felt something was missing but could not decide was it; I felt a longing I had never felt before

Time passed, my semester ended and there I was back home for winter vacations, those mere 10 days. They were just 10 days, they did not feel like vacations but what I found was a connection with you. You were 5…

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Dialogue – 96 (Relations)

“What to do with the relatives who do not call / connect / meet back, as we do to them…?”

“Does it happen often?..”

“Yes…. Quite so…”

“If it happens so often, try to look inward….. Probably in such a case, the locus of control is NOT external…”

“Well, I have a number of cousins, uncles, aunts, who do not connect back to us… They are judgmental, suspicious and infact wary of our visits and calls to them…. They think we expect something, or are gonna demand something…. This thing stops me to connect to them any further…… Our silah-e-rehmi is thus not welcomed…”

“Do you know what does ‘silah-e-rehmi’ mean..?”

“Yes… It means, to connect with relatives, near and dears ones, to do good with them, to make family connections, to take care of relatives, to help them in time of need, to make their lives easy…..”

“”You are right…”

“So…?..”

“Well, does meanings of ‘silah-e-rehmi’, at any point say that you have to expect the same things back…?… Or, does it assure you that you will get the same treatment back…?”

“No…”

“You are right again…”